Just read this old adage... The myth is that "we don't have time" but the reality is that..."we always have time; we just choose not to use it wisely". For about 30mins, I have been pondering over this "simple" saying as it may seem, then it dawn on me that, this is a reflection of my attitude toward time lately. I'm going to tell my story and it just might be "yours"!
"Oh, my friend, I have been so busy, that is way I didn't call you"...this is one of my usual excuse phrase I use lately. There are several things I have plan over time to execute and I simply just don't find the "time" to do them. I'm either too "busy" with work or "something" is keeping me busy. This explains why many of my yearly resolutions don't materialize...because I don't have "time". Pondering, the list of uncompleted task (mostly, personal) are in a tall order. Funnily, I find time to complete all my job related assignments and never make time to finish thing that are related to my personal development. How many times have I used that usual excuse for failing to visit a dear friend, my parents, to give that support to that fellow who badly needed me around, to church activities or any other good cause???? Always....I don't have the time.
Thinking back, I truly have a lot of time at my disposal and I simply waste it unknowingly with the excuse that I'm so busy. I have missed out on many golden opportunities in life just because I claimed not to have time.
Like the old adage goes..."we have so much time; we just choose not to use it wisely"! May be, this in the turning point for me.....I'm gonna make that time to call that fellow, make the time to be there for that friend who need my shoulder, make the time to develop myself, make the time to do what matters most in my life.
If this is your story;...don't say that again! You have the time, use it wisely. You control your own time, plan it better!
You can't have the time, you must MAKE the time!